There are two kinds of men, real men and the great pretenders who are still boys. A man who is grounded and mature on a mental, emotional, physical and spiritual level is a real man. They are growing in the right direction and open to continual growth. A boy on the other hand will run at the prospect of getting real and when he gets a whiff of his emotions or that of a woman’s he will squirm and get uncomfortable and bolt. The “boy” the great pretender is a bad investment.
A woman who has emotional maturity
In every relationship, the time will come when you see things differently or misunderstand each other. Develop a positive way to respond and share your feelings. And it is ok to plan ahead how you will communicate to each other when these things happen. Taking ownership of your feelings and emotions as a mature adult will save you a lot of grief. Don’t blame or criticize a man for how you feel. Share feelings in an open, honest and real way, help a man better understand what you are going through. Your emotional stability will increase his attraction to you.
A woman who is independent
Many women wrongly believe men are looking for a woman who is weak and will make them feel stronger and smarter. Wrong! A woman inspires and ignites a man’s interest because she has great things going on in her life. Having a purpose in life other than just being in a relationship is what a man wants. A man isn’t “intimidated by independence and accomplishment. What matters to a man is that a woman still has space in her life for an excellent relationship and is grounded and present when she’s with him. How a woman handles emotions in one of the key factors in helping a man decide whether to get involved with a woman and take it to the next level.
A woman who is playful
Action and playful behavior are what men spent their entire childhood doing. We can all recall visions of boys horsing around and getting physical with each other on the playground. Men like action and if you want to connect with your man on a deep level then be playful. Women want to talk and talk and talk, but no man wants you for what you say, so let the game begin and be playful. It is what you do together, not what you say. Do things with him – get involved in the things he likes, be competitive in casual games like pool or putt-putt golf, even add a little teasing and smart remarks here and there, and you’ll really increase his attraction and interest in you.
A woman he’s attracted to
Men want to be with a woman who he has a passion for and is attracted to. If you share that, he will not be afraid of a committed relationship with you. This is an innate thing it is either there or it’s not, you cannot fake it, force it or forget it. Chemistry is a basic instinct.
So sit back, relax and enjoy the ride. Share your fun and humorous side from the start. Don’t try too hard and force it. Nothing is sexier than a woman who is comfortable in her skin and who is relaxed and fun. Go ahead, be playful, flirty, funny and spontaneous.
